Wednesday, February 23, 2011

MONEY, MONEY, MONEY ... makes me funny...

A few weeks ago I set the intention to resolve some residual energy that was sitting with me in regards to money, dollars and flow of money in and out.
This is a really common area for so many of us that can be present in our lives either on a daily basis or at least arise every now and then. Despite my great success over past years with manifesting money, material things, good health and amazing experiences; I do at times find myself aware the lack that shows up from time to time. For to do so is to be human.

Recently when I was ‘feeling the lack’ I set the intention to gain new understandings and create a greater sense of ease about money and abundance. Days passed and I got on with my busy life knowing that when it was right something would come forward and bring with it new insights.

Last week I was offering a follow up to a beautiful and powerful woman as part of her Intuitive session. I was thinking about her and focusing upon some of the questions she wanted answered. Some of these pertained to her business.
With the greatest ease and clarity I received that one of the keys to shifting your energy so as to be in alignment with financial abundance is to change the way you think about money.

Many of us have emotional and energetic reactions to money. Usually without too much effort we can see the direct relationship between the messages we have received about money during our childhood as they play out in our grown up lives.
Everyone’s experience of money is their own however there is one constant and that is that we all have feelings about money. Whether you have a lack of money, see it as slow to come, quick to go or have that constant feeling that you simply don’t have enough of it; these thoughts will always lead to a feeling response.

When just a few weeks ago I was noticing the areas of lack in my life I decided it was time for this to be addressed once and for all. So with great gusto the intention was set. The universe responded and it was no surprise to me that I received a clear message a short time later.

The message came as an invitation to conceptualise money differently. In my Intuitives and healers we draw in, guide and direct energy without a second thought. It is what we do. We move energy toward us and away from us and to others easily, freely and with love. If we accept that money is simply energy then in the same way we can draw, direct and allow the free flow of money into, around and through our lives.

If we can hold this concept in our conscious mind then it lends easily to feeling the difference between needing to earn one thousand dollars as opposed to receiving 1000 pockets of energy. Take a moment and say to yourself; “I can earn $1000 “ … see how you feel. Just simply pay attention. Then say to yourself, “ I know that 1000 pockets of energy are coming my way” … rest with this statement for a time and ask yourself, “Does this feel different?” To me it does.

This new way of seeing and feeling the energy that is money is so very liberating. To lay down the emotional burdens and blockages we may hold in regards to money offers great opportunities to be liberated into a new experience of material wealth and abundance.

As you utilise this simple shift in language to describe the flow of abundance into your life, the only step left is to relax, and watch as the pockets of energy flow to you with ease and with love.

Abundant Blessings
Katrina Cavanough
Intuitive Specialist, Psychic & Life Strategist
www.katrinacavanough.com
www.yourpowerfulspirit.com
(M) 0415 888 033

Monday, February 21, 2011

Make Love Easily

Love is a mysterious notion. For some people it is a warm and fuzzy place to be. For others it can be a confusing quagmire of potential threat and turmoil that can leave them feeling anxious and overwhelmed. There is a simple remedy that can go a long way to make loving easy.

One of the gifts I often share with my clients is to invite them to lay down the word ‘love’ and instead use the word ‘nurture’. When we say we want someone to love us, we actually mean we want someone to nurture us.
To be nurtured is to be appreciated, cared for, and to have our mind, body and soul nourished by the experience of being in relationship with another. As two people nurture each other they celebrate all the magnificent things about both themselves and the other person.

When one person considers what can I do today to nurture my partner then the answers flow. A list of ideas will easily come to mind. There are always so many things that one can do or say to uplift the other and ensure they feel better about themselves. These nurturing acts of kindness are quick easy ways to enrich your relationship.

Many times when I used to work with couples in a relationship therapy session, I would invite them to feel the difference between finding ways to nurture one another as opposed to finding ways to love one another.

When you ask a couple “What can you do today to show your partner that you love them?” there are many couples or at least one person within each couple that will be left unable to find any meaningful answers.

One of the reasons why this question is so difficult is that there are many of us who unconsciously associate the word love with feeling hurt. If our first role modelling of two people who love each other were our parents fighting, then we soon learn that to love is to hurt another. As children the first people we love are our parents. If in that love relationship we experience emotional abandonment or any other form of abuse then we soon learn to equate loving someone with emotional pain. It’s no major leap then to understand why when one person says to the other “show me that you love me” that on an unconscious level alarm bells sound and leave people feeling confused and overwhelmed and quite frankly with a deep need to run in the other direction.

People need to see changes quickly. When they do they are motivated to keep going and keep working on their relationship. So today I invite you to consider, “What are some of the things you can do or say to nurture your partner?” Sit down and write a list together. Then be brave and enact that list. It’s a simple way to make love easy.