The process of letting go or detaching appears to be quite difficult for many people. We get so attached to the external factors that we believe will make our lives easier and happier. To chase this is human. It is ok essentially. Where it becomes unbearable for many is when the experiences or material things that you decide are the focus of your happiness do not come to fruition immediately or in your sense of Now.
The key to letting go or detaching is to focus upon who you really are, your True Essence and know that it is this stuff, this Energy that is the source of all your happiness and all that is good in your thoughts, beliefs and behaviour. It is from this Energy, the Energy within us all that abundance flows.
The energy that makes the car that you want to buy or the loving experience that you want to experience in your life or even the car space or green light that you require; is the same energy that is YOU, your SOUL, your ESSENCE.
There is no need to create these material things or experiences we just need observe as the Energy flows from within us and then becomes our outer experience. Once we are aware of the abundant energy that is our essence, we easily see it flow from within and take form as the house, the car, the pony or the blessing that we desire.
Once we are in that place of observation we can truly Let Go.